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Continue reading →: When You Feel Like a Burden: Fighting the Mental Toll of Chronic Illness
Some days, the hardest part of Crohn’s isn’t the pain—it’s the guilt. Guilt for canceling plans.Guilt for needing help.Guilt for feeling like a burden on the people I love. I know I didn’t choose this illness. But when you’re constantly asking for patience, constantly needing rest, constantly struggling—it’s hard not…
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Continue reading →: How to Support Someone You Love with Crohn’s
So, you love someone with Crohn’s? Whether it’s a partner, a friend, or a family member—thank you for wanting to understand. Here’s what we really need from you: 💜 Believe us. If we say we’re in pain, exhausted, or need to cancel—trust us. We’re not making it up. 💜 Don’t…
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Continue reading →: Dating with Crohn’s: When Do You Tell Someone?
Dating with Crohn’s is like playing a game with hidden rules. Do I bring it up on the first date? Or wait until I have to explain why I’m suddenly sprinting to the bathroom? I’ve tried both approaches. And here’s what I’ve learned: ✔ Honesty is key. I don’t have…
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Continue reading →: How My Chronic Illness Affected My Friendships
When I was first diagnosed with Crohn’s, I thought my friendships would stay the same. I assumed the people in my life would understand, would adjust, would still be there for me. Some did. Some didn’t. The Ones Who Stayed 💜 The friends who text me, even when I cancel…
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Continue reading →: How I Keep Up with My Kids Despite Fatigue
Fatigue is a beast. Some days, my body feels like it’s made of lead, and keeping up with my kids feels impossible. But over the years, I’ve learned a few tricks to make it work. ✔ Low-energy bonding activities.When I can’t run around, we color, do puzzles, read books, or…
