My Crohnstipated Life

If I could sit down with every healthy person in my life, here’s what I’d want them to know: 💜 I don’t “choose” to be flaky. I cancel plans because my body makes the decisions—not me. 💜 I don’t look sick, but I feel sick. Just because I’m not in…

Every time I leave the house, I go through the checklist: ✔ Bathroom locations mapped out – Because I can’t afford surprises.✔ Emergency bag packed – Meds, wipes, extra clothes—just in case.✔ Exit strategy planned – Because Crohn’s doesn’t wait until I’m ready. And yet, even with all the planning,…

Some days, I have the energy to be the fun mom—the one who plays, bakes cookies, and builds forts in the living room. Other days, Crohn’s wins. 💔 I have to say “not today” when my kids ask me to play outside.💔 I rely on easy meals when I wish…

For years, I felt like I had to apologize for my illness. 💭 “Sorry for canceling again.”💭 “Sorry I need to rest.”💭 “Sorry for asking if there’s a bathroom nearby.” But one day, I stopped. Because I realized—I didn’t choose this. ✔ I don’t owe anyone an apology for taking…

If I had a dollar for every time someone said, “But you don’t look sick,” I’d be able to afford all my Crohn’s meds out of pocket. Living with an invisible illness is exhausting—not just physically, but emotionally. 💔 People assume I’m fine because I “look okay.” Just because I’m…