My Crohnstipated Life

Explaining Crohn’s to adults is hard enough. But explaining it to my kids? That’s another challenge entirely.

I want them to understand, but I also don’t want to scare them. I want to be honest, but I also don’t want them to feel like their mom is fragile.

So here’s how I’ve handled it:

💜 I use simple terms.
Instead of saying, “Mommy has an autoimmune disease that causes chronic inflammation in her intestines,” I say:
“Mommy’s tummy is sick sometimes, and I have to be extra careful with what I eat and how I rest.”

💜 I answer their questions honestly.
“Will you ever get better?” – I hope so! But if not, I’ll always do my best to take care of myself.
“Why do you have to go to the doctor so much?” – Because my doctor helps me stay strong so I can take care of you.

💜 I reassure them.
More than anything, I want them to know that no matter what, I will always be their mom. Crohn’s might slow me down, but it will never stop me from loving them fiercely.

Stay Strong!