My Crohnstipated Life

Dating with Crohn’s is like playing a game with hidden rules.

Do I bring it up on the first date? Or wait until I have to explain why I’m suddenly sprinting to the bathroom?

I’ve tried both approaches. And here’s what I’ve learned:

✔ Honesty is key. I don’t have to spill everything right away, but I also don’t want to build a relationship on secrets.

✔ How they react says everything. A good partner won’t be scared off by my illness. They’ll listen, ask questions, and want to understand.

✔ I deserve someone who accepts all of me. Crohn’s is part of my life, but it doesn’t define me. And the right person will see me—not just my illness.

Dating with Crohn’s is tough, but I know one thing: The right partner will love me for who I am, flares and all.

Stay Strong!