Ok, this maybe a little offensive to some of you but I thought it was so guyish and a little funny! My husband always jokes around like this but after seeing this youtube video, makes me really wonder just how much of it is a joke! Do they really all think this way?  Are we women really this bad? 

It’s natural to want to have control over your own life. However, most of us realize you can’t control everything, especially other people. You can make requests or try to influence others, but you can’t control them. Psychologist Dr Thomas Schumacher writes, “When you have to be in control of the people around you…when you literally can’t rest until you get your own way…you have a personality disorder. So, do I have a “disorder?”

I speak for myself when I say I am a totally selfish and crazed woman who likes to be in control but in control of myself and MY life.  Not yours, your mother’s or your sister, but my own life.  If you are in my life, well guess what- that sentance would include you.  Yes, I want control of my life and may have a strong personality.  But let me just say that I have more love in this heart of mine than most others. I’ll do anything for my friends, family and loved ones.  Yes, I am a control freak but I have to be otherwise nothing would be done.  Making sure the laundry is done, the dogs are fed, the bills are paid, the business succeeds, the kids go to school, dinner at 5 and at the kitchen table, the automobiles are repaired, the lawn is done, your needs are met- and that’s just a drop in the bucket! If that makes me a control freak….so be it. It that makes me unloveble then I guess those people really weren’t the ones for me anyway.  And if guys really feel this way, it makes me think I need to change the way I perceive what they are saying or change my vision board to someone who is more like me.  But either way, I thought this was in silly fun and thought you would laugh, too!

Check out this video for a lil chuckle!

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I’m Kelly

Welcome to My Crohnstipated Life, a space where I share the raw, real, and often humorous journey of living with Crohn’s disease. From unpredictable flares to parenting while managing a chronic illness, this blog is a mix of personal stories, practical tips, and a whole lot of laughter—because sometimes, humor is the best medicine. Whether you’re living with Crohn’s, love someone who is, or just want a peek into the rollercoaster of chronic illness, I’m glad you’re here. 💜 Stay Strong.

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